Gay distraction

During my childhood, I made a pact with myself that I would exist in a vertical casket until the day I was six feet under. Never once did I consider wholly living for myself; instead, I accepted existing in a way that was most comfortable for others. Memories of youth that should be filled with blissful days and friends at the park are rather replaced by prayers to God that I would wake up the next morning and want to kiss a boy.

Repeatedly disappointed and frustrated, I feared that my hidden diagnosis — which members of my conservative upbringing would call a disease — would someday be discovered. I am nearing my second anniversary of being an out and proud lesbian. No longer am I merely surviving; today I am thriving with a passion to impact the world.

While I have not made it to my first pride parade yet, I have immersed myself into the vibrantly queer community of Miami, experienced genuine love with a woman who I was previously convinced only existed in my dreams and adopted an entirely new family comprised of a gaggle of gay men who act as pillars of unabated encouragement.

Under the Trump administration, federal protections and resources for queer Americans have been dismantled. These are just a few of the countless despicable actions taken by our federal government, carrying on the legacy of a system that continues to attack us because of who we are and who we love.

This includes black and trans lives who are often forgotten when referencing our incredibly diverse population. Instead of remaining silent in the face of issues that may not directly affect you, I ask you to join me in being obnoxiously a part of the right side of history.

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