Wife wants dp gay husband and friend

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I have been with my husband for for 13yrs and we have 2 children. Our relationship has its ups and downs we don't really argue but we plod by in our own sort of way, at times he can be quite cold towards me not in a nasty way I can't describe it really. I work nights and have had my doubts and snooped I saw a message with an activation code for grindr I excused it as maybe a mate playing a joke etc but this has now happened a few times when i have been working my night shift.

I looked at internet history he seems have no recent history so guess he deletes but many months back he visited porn hub and clicked straight on the gay porn section! Unfortunately that day we had lots going on and i was then going straight to work. The next day I checked his phone whilst he showered in the eve and saw again an activation message from grindr seen this about 5 times now I confronted him which he denied and then eventually came up with that he was curious and there has always been something in the back on his mind.

I cannot see his grindr app as he is clearly downloading and deactivating I have set up an account to try and find him but couldn't many men have tried to make contact with me with even just my basic profile so I know how easy it can be to chat about all sorts and exactly what people want on there.

He promises me he has never chatted to anyone and he was just browsing to see what people put on there, but why would he do this more than once and Infact the 5 times that I know of but this could be more!

Double Penetration / Wife fucks husband and friend at same time for creampie in ass and pussy / DP

What do I do? I feel so alone and don't know what to do or if I can carry on knowing this and I cannot get my head around the fact he would be looking through grindr lots of times and saying he hasn't done anything. Gay men can be so ashamed of their own feelings Tell him you need to talk and jaut sit down and talk.

Easier said than done but this si more than one off curiosity Not fair on you tho. He can still love you deeply but those feelings feelings ok nt go away if really he wants to explore a side of his life that he has denied, never explored, or been scared of Talk talk talk.

It must be so hard for you. Sorry OP. I agree that you need a really good honest conversation. This is too important to be fobbed off. Best of luck. Phillip Schofield, Michael Barrymore, Freddie Mercury, Oscar Wilde, all the ex wives of several gay men I know and apparently the husband's of a mumnetter a week.

Don't be a beard, like many gay and bi men he'll never admit it. You'll have to end it because he won't. Log in to update your newsletter preferences. I am just gutted we have 2 children and I don't know where to start with moving on. We talked and he broke down and said he only wants me, he married me and wouldn't of if he felt otherwise.

He said he has had a niggle in the back of his mind but would never act on it.